These are very interesting questions for me to answer, because
up until recently, I’ve never really thought of myself as a leader. I always had a very specific image in my head
of what a leader should act like and my personality has never really fit that
image. I’ve recently been discovering,
however, that being a leader can be a much broader term than I had originally
pictured. Let’s start with why I never
thought of myself as a leader. First
off, I’m not an outspoken person. When I’m
in a group setting, I’m the guy that sits back and listens, and may make a few
comments to the person sitting beside me.
I rarely contribute too much to the group conversation without carefully
considering exactly what I have to say.
Another example, when I was captain of the WPI swim team, I wasn’t what
you typically think of in a sports team captain. I didn’t give inspirational speeches or “rally
the troops” to victory. I “led by
example” by working as hard as I could in every practice and every competition. At the time, I never really gave this style
of leadership as much credit as it should have deserved.
Now let’s talk about the skills I do have that I’m starting
to realize actually do make me more of a leader than I originally thought. First off, I am the most organized person I
know. This is what allows me to be
involved in so many things at once, and not become too overwhelmed. More importantly, this really allows me to
focus on accomplishing critical tasks, rather than trivial things like where I
left my notebook. Secondly, I have a
natural ability to spot true talent in an individual. This is especially important because it helps
me to form very strong teams. I recently
heard the phrase “the most effective leader is the one who surrounds himself
with the right people.” I had never
thought of this before, but it makes sense, because I have accomplished many
things just from enlisting the right help.
Finally, I understand how to take calculated risks. Many people who know me would describe me as
a risk taker. What they often don’t know
is the depth of analysis and calculation that I’ve put into the risks that they
see me taking. I actually consider
myself to be very risk averse, because I rarely take any risks without having a
full analysis to support that the risk has a high likelihood of paying off.
The reason I’ve talked so much about these three qualities, is that I think combining them actually can make me into an effective leader, even if it’s not in the typical stereotype that I would place on a leader. These qualities allowed me to be an effective swim team captain without ever getting in front of the team and giving the speech. I recognized talent and organized the swimmers into effective teams that had the potential to accomplish big things. I also know where and when to take my teams into potentially “risky” situations. It wasn’t until recently that I recognized that these qualities could also qualify as “leadership” qualities.
Steve, good introspective analysis. You forgot another quality as a leader is knowing your strengths. Did you ever find yourself in a spot where your team needed a "gipper" speach? I was captain of a number of my soccer teams and always felt I needed to be a vocal leader. Maybe its the difference between the two sports. Great analysis.
ReplyDeleteBrett,
DeleteI do agree that in most cases a team captain / team leader does need to give a "gipper" speech to rally the troops to victory. This is something that I am admittedly weak at. Fortunately for the swim team, there were often more than one captain on the team, and between us we were able to divide the leadership responsibilities. I was often the lead by example / help swimmers improve at the individual level leader, where my co-captains would fill in for the team-wide motivation.
Steve, good to read your leadership qualities. I discovered much of the leader in me from my MBA course OBC501. This was the turning point for me in a couple of areas most important was getting a new job. It was by following a deep inquiry into your personal life that helped uncover fascinating facets that existed but were dormant. Strongly recommend course.
ReplyDeleteCarlton,
DeleteGlad that you mentioned OBC501 as a good recommendation. I was recently looking at the course offerings for next semester and was strongly considering that course. It seemed like something I could benefit from earlier rather than later. This suggestion may be the tipping point to convince me to take it next semester.
Nice Steve. I was happy to read this post. I think you are completely right when you talk about surround yourself with the right people, but I usually manage to get the most out of the wrong people, at least I know exactly what I don't want to become or follow. Like you, I recently entered a bodybuilding contest in Boston and came in 3rd place, I never thought I would be able to do it, but once you start to believe in yourself, things come to you naturally, it just makes sense, you develop the skills you need to reach your goal and people see your drive and take you as an example. It's interestingly positive.
ReplyDeleteRosana,
DeleteCongrats on your competition! I couldn't agree more. Confidence / believing in yourself is probably the most important attribute. If you don't believe in your capabilities, then there is no chance anyone else will believe in you. If you do, there is at lease some chance that your followers will too. Once you have confidence, understanding your strengths and weaknesses is the next logical step. You can then start to improve on your weaknesses, and surround yourself with the right people to help fill in for your weaknesses.
That is right. I completely agree with you. I also think that time is very important, as it shows individuals that certain behaviors or personality styles need to be refined. As we grow older and network more, we learn new strenghts and weaknesses.
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